Searching for trouble? Got trouble!
Most suspicions tend to be true in the long run, but of course we cannot avoid being suspicious.
Lots of lovers have a tendency to checking out their partners behind their back, not because they don’t trust but because they want to be so sure that everything is just in place. Everything is always fine if there no surprises or shocking moments.
But what if you find more than you expected, what do you do?
Let me give you a scenario; the two of you decided not to get involved in sex before marriage, and then you find some condoms in his bed side drawer, or contraceptives in her hand bag! What is the first thing you think about? And of course what do you do?
There are those questions we ask and we start praying none answers. Much us we don’t like lies we are never ready for the truth!
Will you buy the story of; “They are for a friend… ”? Let’s face it which friend keeps in your bedroom or hand bag?
May be he/she is cheating on you, or maybe not. So rushing to some decisions is not wise. Again our emotions will take part in the decision we make. You have to be careful.
However I would say; take time to observe, monitor, and evaluate. If there are questions unanswered, try to get answers.
If you get to know that actually as you agreed not to have sex he/she chose to have it somewhere else. Then never complain about a cheating spouse once you married.
I’m not being hash, but they say that; if something hits you in the eye, its caution for you to be observant! If you believed that he/she will change once you’re married, and he/she hasn’t, be more patient and wait for the change to happen. If you forgave him/her, before he/she repented, please forgive him/her again.
I wonder why people like looking for pain,
they say what you don’t know doesn’t hurt.
Humans always want to be in the KNOW!