Until you say it.

Until you say it.

May be my heart is lost
May be confused
May be stupid to hope

You are my love
My mind, heart and soul
Are sold to you…
All my love is yours.

What more do you want from me?
Every thing of mine,
You have taken.

For what it’s worth
I love you.
And I will be waiting
Right here besides you…

Until you say it
Until you say to me,
‘I love you’
For my place is right there besides you.



Is life unfair?

Is life unfair?

Life is a journey, so they say, so we believe: a journey that is started for us and one that we must embrace and enjoy. A walk is never fun; unless you have a partner to share it with.

Most of us spend our lives trying to find that person we can share our lives with, on the other hand the rest lose their partner without even knowing who they are, so we end up at a river of emptiness crying life is not fair.

But is life really not fair? It’s as though some of us like playing cat and mouse without realizing how ugly this game is really is! We still enjoy our ‘Tom & Jerry’ cartoons, we learn from them and we imitate them… not realizing how much we hurt ourselves.

Humans we not meant to be alone, so don’t not try to isolate yourself, a good number of our friends and family have already gone home, they did not get a chance to live on and watch the sunrise today.

Look around you; you have got many friends, your family, there even more new people to meet. Those that have passed away would cry if they heard our complaints, we should not be the ones to say life is not fair; it’s like we have forgotten what we have.

We have got life, what more do we need that we can’t get?


We have made 7,342 hits

Counting 7342 hits!

We have made 7,342 hits, and we are still counting.

We started from 0 together and now we have hit 7000+
Am really humbled.

All i can say is, thank you.
Thank you….
And may God bless You.

Lots of love,



Thank you Friends

Akoola’s Blog has got 4000+ hits,
and all thanks i give to you.

I thank my brother Kiiza, aka. kabonde who introduced to wordpress.com …
by then i was thinking of joining blog spot.

I loved the templates of wordpress,
the colors, the format, the layout.

I can say, it’s cool enough for me.

i thank God for the words he has put at in my mind,
and the desire to share my thoughts,
and imaginations.

Other wise,
i would not have said anything.
Lets keep it on,

Thanks a lot.
Benie M,
a.k.a Akoola.


Making your self part of the team and be a team player.

Honestly speaking am not the write person to write about this.. however i got to talk about and share with everyone. I like talking so this won’t stop me. So lets roll.

To begin with, there are 5 things that matter most in business.

    and the price

Our personality styles stand in our way most of the time… but the good news is these are things we can change about our selves. Basically all humans are expressive, reserved, change oriented, thinkers and creators. However our percentage in each of these areas differ from person to person.

The most important part in a team is to understand each other, accept one another, respect their feelings, as we do that, we attract more people to our lives.

I remember i used to say am not a ‘peoples’ person: that was my simple way of saying; i don’t like crowds please keep my space clean. But as move thru life you realize we keep on meeting new challenges, issues, lessons that shape us and help us grow from one level to another.

As we accept others, we learn to love, and develop unity among us…. what more can one ask for if we are all united. Amazing things can be created when people are united.

A team is made by 3 steps:

    Storming(Bring up ideas).
    Norming(Work out common procedures).
    Forming (Form a team, with a common goal.).

Another thing we need to look at is our habits. Basically these are ways to express our knowledge, skills and desires.

    Knowledge:- What to do?
    Skills:-How to do it?
    Desires:-Our Motivation.

As humans we are born as dependents, then we learn to be independent then inter-dependent and finally we become defendants again. that is how our cycle is.

So if you watch kids trying to do their own thing, it’s the way of life… just a change in us. but for us to be more productive we need to be inter-dependent. And that calls for a team.

Seven Characteristics of Highly Effective People.
These are part of your; habits, Attitude, Relationships, Balance and then you can write your Legacy

    Be proactive.
    Begin with the end in mind.
    Put 1st things 1st.
    Think win/win.
    Seek 1st to understand then to be understood.
    Sharpen the saw.

All habits start as Duties, then they grow to Disciplines and finally we delight in them. At that point we find our selves doing them with out even noticing. So be encouraged that we can change our habits to what we want them to be. Once we develope what we know, and our skills, then our inner person will develop and finally the out side will grow.

However you can do an out_in approach to change your life, am told when some1 is pleased with his/ her looks he starts to look at things with courage, determination… and with time the inner person also starts feeling like a winner.

One more thing i learned is that, being in a team doesn’t mean that you don’t bring up your ideas. Arguments are not bad. They help get information, even the painful info will come out during an argument.

Setting up a successful team.

    Stardardise work and performance.
    Select members of skill and potential.
    Pay attention to 1st meetings and actions.
    Set clear roles and behavior
    Set and seize a few performance task and goal
    Refresh the group with new information and task.
    Spend a lot of time together
    Exploit the power of positive feed back recognitions and reward.

Chasing a love in the wind.

It a good feeling to smell fresh air, you spread your arms take in much as you can but this seems to be different when start chasing the love in the wind.

This love takes you by surprise and you feel so high, as tho’ your flying on eagles wings… before you take a sip of it… your flying alone. And if you are one of people i know who takes that as a ‘challenge’ to overcome, you will do all you can to get that love.

To begin with, you can’t explain what you feel, but it’s something so good that you want to hold, but the other part of you will be like, ‘this is wrong…’then you will struggle to make it right just in the name of feeling good one more time

You will run with the wind, but the problem is, it’s only you who feels the pain, anyone else will wonder how, why, or even tell you how crazy you are!

Unfortunately it will never be right, you will always have one more hope that one day it will be right, but will just end up being so annoyed with yourself. You feel you have failed to archive what you heart yearns for.

If it’s your 1st time to feel it, you would definitely feel, this is the best feeling you have ever felt! But just know a part of does not agree to it. The best you can do is to let go of the wind… let it pass!

It’s hard, but not all good things that pass by are meant to be kept. Others are just to wake us up. Help us appreciate somethings that life has offered us.

Let the wind pass, it has served it’s purpose. That love that is not accepted by you is not meant to be kept in your heart. It will not make you happy. The moment feels good but you can’t smile about it!

That love is bonded in the wind and just like you can’t catch the wind… you can’t hold on to that love.

Till next time, Celebrate love… and let the wind pass by.
Hope am speaking to some one.